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Dr wants quick weight loss due to health

Heather, Thank you so much for all that you do for those of us who struggle with our weight/food. You help me make sense of all the lower brain chatter and just how powerful it can be. I recently went to my cardiologist. He is very concerned for my heart health. He wants me to lose 10% of my body weight 24.5 pounds before my next visit in December. My mind shut down, how can I do this without turning around and gaining it all back. I would still need to lose over 100 pounds to improve my health. I am just unsure how to move forward with this information. He did not give me any guidance other than eat less and move more. I am not sure how to move forward and am in fear for my health. Do you have any recommendations on how to go about doing this, when I have been in the mindset of going slowly and attainable Thanks, Molly

Will I ever be able to forget food?

Dear Heather, Thank you so much for your kind and practical advice. Your podcasts have helped me so much as I struggle toward understanding and learning to control my lifelong binge eating habit. The question I have for you is about the post-recovery experience with binge eating. Does the constant internal chatter and struggle surrounding food ever fade into the background? Once you have your binge eating under control, does that free up time and space in your brain, or does staying binge-free require just as much time, energy and obsessing about food? I have never been tempted by alcohol or drugs. I enjoy wine now and then, and I can open a bottle, drink a glass, and then forget about the rest of the bottle until it turns to vinegar or even gets moldy. Is it possible I could ever reach a point where I am the same way with Cheetos? It would be helpful as I struggle with this to know if there's freedom to look forward to or just a more productive form of constantly thinking about food. Thanks in advance, and much appreciation!

Apple Watch Calories

Hi Heather - I just recently joined and I am loving your videos in Podcasts. Like many, I am practically a lifelong dieter. I am working on applying some of your tools to learn my maintenance calories and address some of my habits before I refocus on trying to lose weight. I just started this week on pre-journaling my food on paper, including my nighttime binges. The question I have, is in your experience how accurate are the calories burned on a smart watch, such as an Apple Watch? And, should I let My Fitness Pal adjust calories from exercise or not? If I go by my watch, I typically burn 2400 calories a day. This seems like so many calories to eat when I have always tried (when tracking) to stick to 1200-1500 calories. I started this week with trying to be around 1,900-2,000 - and will see what happens in 14 days. I guess I will answer my own question after the 14 days based on whether my weight goes up, down or stays the same. Thanks again!

Is this for men too?

Hi I am a new Premium subscriber. I have noticed that your guests are women and was wondering if this technique works for men too? Thanks.

Getting coaching

Hi Heather. I’ve been with a coach before that coached me and I lost 25 pounds. I kept it off through the pandemic but when we had 2 hurricanes hit us 6 weeks apart I went in survival mode and haven’t been able to get a grip on the habits and I’ve gained it all back. I tried macros but I think this is stressful although it should be easy if I planned the day before. I maintain my weight but don’t loose with macros. I would love to get coaching from you! I love all your podcast. I’m listening to Carolina coaching. I’m not a binge eater and it messes with my mind when I listen to these podcast. Of course I eat higher calories than I should to maintain a lower weight. My issues are spontaneous eating. Not in plate and butt in seat kind of thing. I’ve been working on my habits and would like to get started on my own with the future hope of getting coached by you. Like do a jump start on my own and knowing I’m going to get coached by you I feel I can focus on that. I’m not even sure I can get coached by you but what would you suggest I work on before getting coached? I loved my last coach but she didn’t have her own stuff together like you do and when we needed it the most she quit doing it! I am 63 years old and weigh 195. I will NOT hit 200 so I need to reverse this now!! Thank you!